At this time of reduced daylight and cold in the Northern Hemisphere, we need to stay warm, safe, and protected. The season we call winter occurs when the Earth’s 23.4-degree tilt is furthest away from the Sun.
The roots of Christmas go back to the Roman winter festivals of Saturnalia (feasting and gift-giving) and Sol Invictus (celebrating the birthday of the unconquered sun on December 25th). There were also the Germanic and Norse Yule celebrations around the winter solstice with the familiar yule log, evergreen trees, wreaths, feasting, and carol singing. These were then repurposed by the early Church, including adopting the December 25 date in Rome around 336 AD, to commemorate the birth of Jesus.
Although these celebrations are not all joy and happiness for everyone. Many people suffer from stress, anxiety, and depression at this time of year. Winter can affect our moods, which is not surprising given the darkness, the cold, wet weather, and scarcity of food most of our ancestors experienced. Within the body, the reduction in sunlight affects the production of the neurotransmitter serotonin, which, among other things, contributes to our well-being and happiness. This is why people who suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder are often prescribed lightboxes that simulate sunlight.
Whatever you are doing over the break, practising a bit of mindfulness can help you stay connected with the present moment, rather than replaying painful memories or worrying about the future. Being mindful helps maintain emotional balance and stability, a more positive outlook, and better relationships.
Suggested practice
At this time of year, our ancient ancestors celebrated renewal, new life, and vitality that are relevant to practicing mindfulness. Here are some suggestions for revitalizing yourself over the break:
- Explore nature: Go for a mindful walk in the countryside, woods, or coast and open yourself to nature. On your walk, take some long, deep breaths as you look out at the horizon and connect with the feeling of being energised and alive.
- Meditate: Get into the habit of finding time and space for a 10–15-minute meditation each morning and see what difference this makes.
- Let go: If you feel tense, tight, and limited within yourself, take a few deep breaths and allow the tension to soften and release your posture to be more open and relaxed. Use curiosity to connect with the sensations in your body, as you let go of any limiting thoughts, beliefs, and feelings.
- Be kind: Give the “gift that keeps on giving” by practising kindness, understanding, patience, and compassion with everyone you encounter, even strangers and difficult relatives.
- Savour the moment: remember to keep bringing yourself back to appreciate the moment, which is the only time you can experience happiness.
- Stay alert: Watch out for semi-conscious mind-wandering – especially negative automatic thoughts.
- Feel gratitude: Be open to gratitude when people give. This is not only gifts; it could be that someone gives you their full attention, a helping hand, kindness, or understanding. You could also feel gratitude for people who are working during the break, on whom we are dependent, like the emergency services.
- Befriend emotions: Spending time with extended family can sometimes open up old wounds. You may be thinking of the people who are no longer with us, or this time of year reminds you of a painful past. Embrace and acknowledge whatever feelings arise, using curiosity to explore what they are about and where they resonate in your body, then relaxing and releasing those areas. Knowing that you are not your emotions and allowing the feelings to dissolve in their own time.
Whatever your personal views and feelings are about this time, your mindfulness practice can help you navigate through the break and emerge out the other end wiser, happier, and revitalized.
Guidance
Find somewhere undisturbed and sit in a comfortable, dignified and upright posture, where you can remain alert and aware.
There are two guided practices for this session. You can close your eyes, or lower your gaze while the meditations play.
- Play the first settling practice, then read through the session content, which you can print off if that helps.
- Then play the second practice to relax and revitalise the body, emotions and mind, ready for the break.